Monday, January 28, 2013

Lessons For Daughters, Mothers & Every Woman - Part Two



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Good morning, my feminine lovely! I believe that it takes a GOOD woman to be a good mother - for it's the biggest and most noble job in the world. Being a good mother requires intelligence, patience, training, love, unselfishness and strength of character. 

Besides these qualifications, a good mother must know about homemaking, cooking and finances. However, this isn't all she must know. She must know and acquire some of the social graces and accomplishments. 

This is for her OWN self-improvement, and in order to be able to keep up with her husband and children. Moreover, a good mother is wise - very wise - and successful according to her wisdom. 

The wise mother also knows that there's absolutely NO use trying to control her child/children if she hasn't learned to control herself - her own temper, behavior, habits, eating, talking and thinking. 

In addition, dove, a good mother should possess some knowledge of psychology. Wikipedia describes psychology as; 'The scientific study of mental functions and behaviors.' Many books and websites on this subject are available, and I believe that every mother should study psychology seriously. 

By studying psychology, you can learn that a child reacts according to rules and regulations, and that while you'll find variations in each child, the principle is the same, and its rules can be applied successfully. You can also learn why your small child tells something that isn't true. This knowledge will save you many unhappy hours! 

Furthermore, psychology can teach you how children react to love, to nagging, to suggestion, and how your child's mind is unfolded like a flower - gradually and by orderly processes. By studying ahead of a daughter's progression, you can know what will be the next step in her development. 

Thus, you can prepare the way by adjusting yourself and being ready to meet the requirements of a new period in your daughter's life.

 You can find part one of this article here

More lessons to teach your daughter/daughters;

Femininity means gentleness, and is incomplete without the other. 

Femininity and gentleness aren't difficult to acquire in youth, and add greatly to a woman's charm.

A gentle manner should accompany a gentle voice. 

Besides being gentle-mannered and gentle-voiced, a woman should be kind.

** Sadly, doll, I'm discovering more and more how feminism is causing men and women to hate each other! I've also been appalled by the unkindness I've witnessed among girls at school, college, and even among grown women. 

That being said, school is an excellent place to for your daughters to learn how to put into practice the 'golden rule.' 

Girls need to remember, also, that 'those to whom much has been given' - in the way of charm, popularity and influence - of them, 'much will be required.'

The real test of a woman's kindness is found at home.

**Many girls find it quite easy to be kind and gracious to those outside the family but very difficult inside their own four walls. Most daughters give comparatively little in exchange for all their parents are doing for them. 

I think it's asking a very small thing when we say to our daughters that we expect them to bring their good dispositions home, and not leave them outside the door as they enter!

You must be a good person, and have the real goodness that comes from strength of character, and a knowledge of what's right and wrong.

If you want to be able to tell the difference between right and wrong, or wise and unwise, simply stop for a moment and think what the effect could be on your life ten years from now.

**Suppose your daughter has a desire to smoke, drink, talk/dress trashy like the other girls, date indiscriminately, park along the side of the road in a boy's cars at night... 

 Ask her; "Could that make a difference in your life ten years from now?" 

Then say to her (or remind her;) 

"Listen. There are some things you do that will be forgotten ten years from today. Foolish things, silly things, things you wish you had not done, but they will be unimportant things, and of little consequence. But there are some things that you should never do because you won't ever be able to forget them. Instead of forgetting them, as the years go by, the memory will keep haunting you."

"Always think twice before doing anything. In ten years from now, you may blush with shame when you remember how freely you behaved, how freely you gave, and how lightly you valued two most important things in your life - the ones on which happiness and true love is built - self-respect and chastity. Lowering your standards, getting drunk and taking drugs will be the undoing of of all of that."

 If there isn't an established authority to quote on a subject that's being questioned, and to distinguish between right and wrong, then say to your daughter; "From my experience I've found ------- to be the better way."

 Like Anthony Robbins suggests, try to pin a new positive meaning on the negative circumstances in your life. It isn't the sorrows troubles or problems that matter the most, my darling dove, it's the long lasting effect that those things have had on you!

Negative circumstances in a woman's life can either make her become a fearful, hard, negative and/or bitter woman, or make her a stronger woman, a more mellow and softer woman, as well as develop her character, and give her a more understanding and forgiving heart. 

 You can find part one of this article here

**When this happens, the sorrows, troubles and problems in your life have been a blessing in disguise. *Smile*

Remember that every woman has a burden of some kind. If you don't happen to know the burden that another woman is carrying, it isn't because she has none. She has probably learned that it seldom lightens our burdens to talk about them. 

**There are several reasons why this is true, dove. You might talk it over with a person who won't be able to understand, or who would give you bad advice. Or, it might be a person who would gossip, which would make matters worse.

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4 comments:

  1. I read the first part of this article--haven't been able to add a subscription to my budget, yet--and it is spot on! As the mother of a precious 20-month old daughter, I am just absorbing all the good advice and wisdom that I can gain about the wonderfully intricate relationship I have, and always want to possess, with her. I especially loved your line: "She has probably learned that it seldom lightens our burdens to talk about them" and the proceeding explanation. Thank you, Melina!

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  2. You're welcome, Tabitha!

    I'm delighted to hear that you're enjoying the advice and wanting to use it with your own daughter. How encouraging to hear!

    There will be more such articles on this subject to come. *Smile*

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  3. This looks like a really beautiful article. Wish I could see the rest, but I am going to look into subscribing if I can afford it. I hope that you are safe from the flooding in Australia. Take care, all the best.

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  4. Well, hello there, lovely!

    Yes, I'm safe from the flooding, thank the Lord! :-) However, I feel for the people who have lost their homes, or lives. :(

    I'm glad you enjoyed the article. Thank you for taking the time to comment.

    *Hugs*

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