Saturday, May 5, 2012

Jealousy; Among And Between Women

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Hello cupcake! 

In today's post we'll be delving into the subject of jealousy; among and between women. 

A woman who's jealous of another woman sees her as a potential RIVAL or competitor. 

She is insecure, and feels threatened by any woman she perceives as being more attractive and gifted than her - or who appears to be meeting with greater success. 

This leads me to....

Jealousy; Among And Between Women - Female Competition and Rivalry

Female jealousy not only implies insecurity, a sense of rivalry, and a fear of DEFEAT in competition. But a conception of equality between the jealous woman and the target of her jealousy is lacking.

We've all seen and experienced competitiveness and rivalry between insecure and jealous women that leads to expressions of character such as;

Being 'fake' toward the target of jealousy.

Acting slighted (a jealous woman may often imagine that she's being purposely slighted by another woman, and that her talents and achievements are being undervalued because of her.)

Being 'catty' toward toward the target of jealousy (nibbling away at her good feelings, her good mood and/or her good name - by criticism and insinuation.)

Attacking the target of jealousy in an openly hostile manner.

**The reason for such fake behavior, cattiness and hostility among and between women is pretty obvious - though quite illogical!

Furthermore, because of jealousy, competition and rivalry between women, a quite common occurrence among a group of women going out for a night on the town, and to ultimately meet men, is to become jealous. 

When a number of women are equally anxious to win the attention of men/a man, that's when the green eyed monster (jealousy) is highly likely to show itself!

Speaking of female competition and rivalry, jealousy is the cause of some of the most bitter plots, quarrels and rivalries between women, as well crimes.  Moreover, we can attribute  a woman's jealousy (in part,) to an outraged sense of justice.

**Due to this outraged sense of justice, a mother can be fiercely jealous of the success of another woman's child, and attribute it to unjust preference from the teacher, the competition judge and so on. 

Jealousy; Among And Between Women - Female Jealousy And Insanity

"Jealousy thrives on doubt and insecurity, becomes insanity (or ceases entirely,) when we pass from doubt to certainty" - François de La Rochefoucauld.)

Did you know, dove, that jealousy toward another woman can be verging on INSANITY? It can be! That's because an excessively jealous woman can become mentally unbalanced when she becomes overly concerned with hundreds of petty instances. 

Insecurity, vanity and narcissism is never far from the surface of an excessively jealous woman's existence. Such a woman is not only insecure, vain and narcissistic but;

She needs an excessive amount of reassurances that she's wanted, admired, and that she has a secure place in life. 

She's a toxic woman.

She often has narcissistic personality disorder.

She's prone to make things into a personal issue.

She often hates the targets of her jealousy.

After injuring the targets of her jealousy, she'll excuse it by way of justification. 

**As the old saying goes; "Jealousy is cruel as the grave!"

Furthermore, to an excessively jealous woman, no holds are barred in satisfying her desire for REVENGE. To satisfy this emotion, a jealous woman's as likely to bring about the ruin of a family or business, as she is the downfall of a dynasty! 

If she doesn't get a hold of herself, she'll;

Ruin her own life.

Alienate her family and friends (save a few, who'll 'sympathize.') 

Alienate her man.

Make herself a subject of ridicule to all her associates. 

Jealousy; Among And Between Women - Beauty And Femininity

Unfortunately, doll, many women have a tendency to become jealous of other women, and pretty quickly, and are often spiteful toward women. 

A jealous woman can't stand seeing;

A woman who's prettier and more feminine than she is.

A woman who receives more attention/recognition (make that any attention/recognition!)

**The singleness and uniqueness of that woman so threatens her security!

Because of jealousy, the flaws we can find in another woman's looks and disposition - in about two minutes flat - are AMAZING. 

Here's a common scenario; 


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15 comments:

  1. Another good article. I also wanted to take this time to ask you if I could join your facebook group since it's seems to lock and I've clicked request but never received a response. I would've emailed you since I done so in the past but I can't find an email address. Thank you.

    Adrienne

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  2. Thank you Adrienne!

    As for the facebook group, I no longer run it or add new members to it. I also deleted my old administrator account for the group.

    Nevertheless, I may open up a forum/group in the near future.

    Have a great day!

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  3. It's been a while I have been on here. I was hoping you could write about having an argument with your man and he goes into silent treatment mode. You did everything you could from texting, and through letter [mine is long distant relationship]. How do you know if he is not cheating? Is it better to have more than one boyfriend at the same time? I feel dating and relationships these days are wicked confusing. Thanks!

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  4. I usually get jealous only in the love department, and I think we get jealous either when we don't trust the other person enough, or when it's the relationship is still uncertain, and you don't know where you're standing. The latter is my current situation. The guy and I are in a long-distance friendship, which sometimes feels like something more, other times I don't know what to believe (no "benefits" involved ;) ). Last month, he got a visit from a mutual acquaintance, who I knew for sure that she liked him. I panicked. I felt jealous and worried that he may choose her over me. He had just met her, only spent one afternoon together within a group, and now she was making a trip abroad to visit him. Beforehand, though, I noticed that she repeatedly flirted with him on Facebook. :S However, I didn't act on my jealousy AT ALL. I only suffered inside, spoke about it to some good friends of mine who calmed me down, I carried on speaking to HIM like I normally would, and with the girl, we are not close friends anyway, so not speaking to her would not make a visible difference. In the meantime, I found out, from other people, that no big deal happened between them, and she returned home quite disappointed. In the end, I'm glad I kept a low profile in those days and regarding this subject. I felt like a LADY. ;)

    Love,
    Sandra

    P.S. Speaking of "doves and cupcakes", the nicknames what this guy calls me by translate into "puppy" and "little joy". ;)

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  5. Thank you so much for this article, this is something I've been dealing with for so long and was in tears the other day to one of my friends about it. Everywhere I go, from the checkout at the grocery store to the workplace, women can be so hateful. Rarely have I had close female friends but the few I have go through the same thing. I used to be a mildly jealous woman, but not anymore. I reasoned that when I was jealous it's because I thought those women had something I didn't but in reality I wasn't lacking anything but self-esteem. Now when I see an attractive woman, I don't get jealous I compliment her. However, the tables have turned. I have nasty rumors spread about me constantly, untrue rumors. I receive nasty looks and horrible comments, even in front of my daughter! I think if these women really knew me and knew my life and how hard I've worked and struggled to get to where I am, they would feel foolish. It's almost comical to watch a woman who looks over at her man to make sure he's not looking at me and then she looks over at me to make sure I'm not looking at her man all the while sending me evil glares in the process. I wish women could relax a little and start recognizing the true beauty and individual greatness they have within themselves. I wish we could celebrate each others successes and support each others struggles instead of indifference and self hatred. Instead of sneering at the Victoria's Secret commercials, go buy one of those sexy bras and learn those sexy flattering poses, and walk tall with your favorite pair of heels! (just keep some flip flops in your purse :) )

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  6. Thank you for your comments, dolls!

    I'll come back here and respond to your comments more in depth after my Asian vacation finishes.

    *Frolics off.*

    xox

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  7. Hi melina! God bless you and have fun on your asian vacation! I myself have always wanted to go to the east it sounds so exotic...... and intoxicating;)

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  9. I look forward to a new article once you return from your Asian vacation and get settled. Miss You!

    Lori

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  10. I can't wait to read your next article. I hope you had a fabulous vacation in Asia and a safe return home!

    xoxo
    God bless
    from your favourite reader!

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  11. Hello Melina, I hope that you are still accepting invitations on your facebook group because i sent a request.

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  12. Hi Melina! Love your articles. Will you be updating soon? xoxo

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  13. Hello, I was just wondering though you have been travellling Asia for a few months, when you are back so that I might purchase your 'work at home moms and gals' - if it is still $37? Just because I wouldnt want to order it and be waiting for an unknown point to recieve it, I'd worry myself. :)P.s It's download/emailed, right?

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  14. Melina,I was wondering when do you think you will be posting again on the Seductive woman? I miss your articles!

    Anyway, I hope all is well with you my dear and that your vacation and summer were fabulous!



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  15. @ Deesse Devii; I'm no longer adding members to the group and am no longer an administrator of the group.

    @ anon who wants to know if the 'work at home moms and gals' program is still available and is it still $37... Yes. And I'm still selling the program at the same price. :-)

    And to everyone who missed me, I'm glad to be back!! xx



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