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Hi doll! Dating, courting, and creating a loving and passionate relationship or marriage with a good man is an ART. Yes, it's an art!
It's called 'the art of loving.'
Like all arts, the art of loving involves carefully cultivating, nuturing and tending to something (in this case, a relationship with a man,) in order to attain the very best results.
Furthermore, the art of loving entails approaching your relationship with positivity, enthusiasm, energy and IMAGINATION.
The 'feminine artists,' the 'creatixes,' the 'master seductresses' and the 'love queens' KNOW this! :-)
Cleopatra was a prime example, always using her feminine energy, creativity and power to maximize her man's PLEASURE. She was constantly intoxicating Marc Antony with all kinds of delights;
Eating and drinking with him.
Joking with him.
Romping with him.
Fishing and hunting with him.
Playing tricks on him....
A relationship with a good man can be the most fulfilling, as well as the most exhilarating times, in a woman’s life. Friendship, feelings of love and excitement, and flowers BLOOM. Furthermore, that sense of being a feminine, seductive and desirable woman, worthy of affection, becomes delightfully real. :-)
I'm sure you'll agree with me, dove, that such relationships can certainly be a time of great satisfaction, fulfillment and discovery for a woman. Moreover, for a woman to participate in life FULLY, with a significant other, is to enjoy one of life's most pleasurable and delightful experiences imaginable.
That being said, to miss out on the enjoyment of such a satisfying and fulfilling relationship with a man would be a shame and a waste! Especially when every woman has it in herself to be a feminine artist and a creatix of love and life.
And when there’s still time for her to do something about her situation!
That being said, many (if not most,) relationships and marriages eventually must contend with that MONSTER who wants to devour everything - boredom and familiarity! I also believe (like the courtesans, seductresses, modern sirens and geisha do,) that a woman who leaves nothing for a man to desire is a lost woman.
Nevertheless, a savvy and creative woman can avoid this scenario altogether by providing her man with a variety of pleasures that can make him happy. Very happy, indeed!
However, in order to make a man happy, it’s necessary for a woman to be creative and initiated into ‘the irresistible secrets of pleasure!’
Coco Chanel also said; "In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different."
The irresistible secrets of pleasure basically entails different varieties of pleasure available to a couple in a relationship. And imparting to these pleasures a new style, or a more original expression.
**If there’s a DIFFERENCE between one moment of pleasure to another, a man can always be happy, as well as kept stimulated, by the same woman.
A woman is empowered by utilizing her creative feminine energy. Creative feminine energy can manifest itself in so many different ways, and can be channeled into so many different areas of usefulness. Consciously, it can be utilized into almost every activity.
A feminine artist and creatix is always planning, devising, inventing, and constructing, lovely!
Moreover, LOVE is the impelling power.
In an intimate relationship, most men have a strong desire to be STIMULATED (in a certain way,) and to feel good (the desire to drink from the source of life!) Nature always seems to be trying to pursue some men, and to achieve its ends.
This is predominantly an instinct, a desire, or an appetite, and something which a man isn't always able to provide reasons for.
Nevertheless, a man will always have a taste for something, and every woman owes it to herself to find out what it is!
Now, do I believe that a man can always love and desire the same woman?
YES, most definitely!
However, it takes a very special woman who can keep a man's interest, as well as his desire for her, indefinitely.
As thoughts and ideas can be of an almost infinite combination, so it should be with the combination of pleasures in a romantic relationship. Moreover, in the most novel, exciting and blissful relationships and marriages, there will be no two moments of pleasure ever exactly alike (any more than there are ever two leaves that are identical on the same tree.
You'll find too that the dynamics of most relationships/marriages change with time. This especially applies to couples with children. As a couple (with or without children,) share their roles and daily tasks in life, they'll find that their relationship and interactions with each other will naturally shift to fit the new and different situations.
**However, this doesn't necessarily mean that the couple will be less in love with each other than they were during their dating/courting days.
That being said, few couples can stand the ‘strain’ of monotony, predictability and boredom - day after day - that can creep into a relationship. Some thoughtful preparations, some novelty and variety, and some physical passion is required.
Women who introduce these things into their relationships can a life with their man that's replete with satisfaction and contentment.
A life filled with many memorable, interesting, pleasurable, loving and BLISSFUL experiences!
However, dove, if that experience of love, passion, pleasure and bliss is to last in a relationship, it must be as flexible as you need to be, as well as willing to stretch itself up and out as you need to do. In order to be able to encompass more and more of life.
Emerson once gave us a key in this particular regard when he said; "Work your passion up into poetry."
Furthermore, my irresistible secrets of pleasure will give you many fresh and imaginative ideas about PLEASING your man, and keeping him satisfied and fulfilled (pleasing a man is is a natural instinct for a feminine woman, and part of her natural constitution.)
As the geisha know, pleasing a man well can also be a great confidence booster for a woman!
A wife especially needs to do all that she can to keep her relationship with her husband fresh and interesting, as well as provide her man with plenty of spice and variety in the bedroom. ;-)
Every woman can not only be a triumphant pleasure claimer and creator, but an artist. An artist is a creator!
I'm a creator. You're a creator.
What shall we create? *giggles.*
Furthermore, a stock of provisions are required for the instinctual and emotive nature of romantic love and passion to ignite.
However, the personalities of BOTH the man and the woman should be considered when planning and creating a satisfying and fulfilling relationship.
**If a couple have enough in common, they can share a multitude of pleasures with their similar tastes and interests.
I'm sure you'll agree with me that the experience of a brand new relationship can feel really full of promise and pleasure because you can aim to develop a brand new lifestyle together.
Moreover, the SENSUAL nature of romantic love and passion (and the associated states,) can give us far greater pleasure than many of the other pleasant and enjoyable things in life.
It wakes us up.
It shakes us out of our routines.
And satisfies one of our most urgent biological needs. ;-)
In addition, passion is not only the instinct for the preservation of the race, but a sign and expression of real creative power.
Moreover, a couple's intimate life is not supposed to be about asceticism or repression, but passion and expression!
Now, let’s get back to the subject of variety, dove. Think about variety in your environment;
Music expresses everything with seven notes.
Painting employs seven primary colors.
Literature often revolves around seven situations....
Well, just like these particular arts, the art of loving has been formed on numerous principles as well. :-)
In addition, music, painting and literature have many different styles, or forms of expression. Therefore, I believe that the expressions in a relationship/marriage should be even more expressive and diversified (it's also advisable to vary those pleasures often! ;-))
As the corresponding feelings and experiences come and go in a romantic relationship, the emotional repertoire of each individual is developed - to the point (ideally,) where they’re increasingly capable of loving, widely and deeply.
How important it is, to learn to love a man in the many ways that are important for mental, emotional and physical fulfillment! For example;
Expressing affection to your man in actions and words.
Showing him frequent acts of kindness.
Giving you man frequent lover-like attentions.
Each new feeling and emotion felt in a relationship helps a couple to gain new experience in the wonders of human interaction, as well as gain an insight into themselves. Furthermore, every couple enters marriage as a new experience.
They enter the relationship believing it to be for BETTER, not for worse.
When two people truly love each other, and know how to express that love fully, each is a better person for the expression of their mutual feelings. The woman calls and the man responds. :-)
Moreover, the experience of loving and being loved (and the mutual experience of pleasure!), is essential for the well-being of any relationship. With it also comes a feeling of relatedness with the whole world.
This is also one of the sweetest experiences known to a woman, dove! To participate in life together with your man, with equal pleasure. Furthermore, with the art of loving, a couple can not only enjoy themselves together, but express themselves in the highest and best ways possible.
There’s nothing worse than a relationship that just exists. Some relationships actually become like a stagnant ponds, when they should be constantly moving and flowing, like a river!
Sadly too, in drudgery, many married couples are just dragging themselves along together - through the days and nights - with no real hope for the future.
Except a recurrence of the same, or similar, conditions.
Moreover, a lack of attention, a lack of affection, and a lack of physical passion is frequently a cause of estrangement and separation between married men and women.
To avoid this, try to keep your relationship forever fresh and young. Never forget how much fun your relationship was in the beginning, and try to keep that flame alive, year after year.
A Chinese philosopher once said;
“Those who really know how to enjoy life are not poor, and he that lives at ease requires no riches."
“Allow the ear to hear what it likes, the eye to see what it likes, the nose to smell what it likes, the mouth to say what it likes, the body to enjoy the comforts it likes to have, and the mind to do what it likes."
"What the ear likes to hear is music, and the prohibition of it is what I call ‘obstruction to the ear.’ What the eye likes to look at is beauty; and if its not permitted to regard this beauty, I call this ‘obstruction of sight.’ What the nose likes to smell is perfume; and if it’s not permitted to smell, I call this ‘obstruction to scent.”
“What the mouth likes to talk about is right and wrong; and if it’s not permitted to speak, I call it ‘obstruction of understanding.’ The comforts the body are good food and fine clothing; and if it’s not permitted, then I call that ‘obstruction of the body.’ What the mind likes most is to be at peace; and if its not permitted to rest, I call this ‘obstruction of the mind's nature.’ All these obstructions are a source of the most painful vexation.”
There’s also an old Chinese proverb which says;
“If men could do without clothes and food there would be no more kings or subjects."
And Yu Tse, a philosopher who lived around B.C. 1250 wondered;
“How can a body possessing the four things; a comfortable house, fine clothes, good food, and a pretty woman long for anything else?”
That being said, these are just four pleasures in life, and solely carnal.
There are so many other things in life that a woman can do to please her man and to give him pleasure. There are intellectual pleasures, emotional pleasures, physical pleasures and even, spiritual pleasures.
There are things that you can do to bring back the SPARK of passion and romance in your relationship or marriage. It should have the spark of life and vivacity in it, too.
The best relationships are not only based on being best friends - but lovers who give reciprocal delight to each other and have a lot of FUN together!
It’s so pleasurable for a woman to know that because of HER, her man is having a better day.
Moreover, a woman who wants to provide her man with the ultimate rarified pleasures needs to not only lay up a stock of provisions, but regard several important factors, such as time and place.
I'll be sharing with you some golden ideas for keeping your relationship/marriage interesting, exciting and for making it magical. I will share some of the very best ways with you on how to please a man - ranging from relaxation, to happiness, to sexy surprises, to absolute BLISS.
It’s true that the motivation for enjoyment, pleasure and happiness in life is pretty universal.
Have fun trying out the 'irresistible pleasures' on list, cupcake! Try at least one idea a day. You'll soon be offering your man a constant influx of pleasure (using the things that many of us take for granted, and.or fail to take full advantage of.)
Seeing, hearing, feeling, tasting, smelling, beauty, friendship, love, and a new day….
As women, creatixes and feminine artists, we can make life extraordinary. And even if other areas of our lives aren't so great, when we are in a great relationships, we feel pretty good!
1. Kiss your man like this. Furthermore, give him warm spicy kisses by drinking bergamot wine together (three days beforehand, prepare the wine by adding a few drops of bergamot oil to it. Cork the bottle, and allow to sit for three days.)
**Bergamot has properties that are not only are calmative and analgesic, but when drunk, elicit certain powerful erotic sensations.
2. Learn the "Kabbazah" technique, a very rare and exciting sex technique prized by Arabian harem women.
**The Kabbazah technique entails a woman exercising her vaginal and pelvic muscles in such a way, that she can cause a man to orgasm most intensely, without moving her body at all. ;-)
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