Therefore, in order to prevent making mistakes with men, we must never allow ourselves to RELAX too much around them.
Mindful manners, perpetual tact, and never-failing caution are necessary (and absolutely essential ingredients,) in the behavior a woman who wishes to catch and keep a man.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Keeping a Man Waiting
Perpetual tardiness isn't part of 'The Rules' (of dating,) or of playing hard to get with men. It's just a bad habit, and a RUDE one at that. It's also resented by any self-respecting, high value man.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Indulging In Catty Gossip
Whether it's about other women, work colleagues, your mother-in-law.... this sort of cattiness is so unattractive to men! It only shows a woman's insecurity and pettiness, and no woman ever achieved permanent success by stamping on the reputations of others.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Running Down Exes
Whether it's running down your ex, or your current man's ex (or his new girlfriend,) DON'T do this. Not only does it make you look insecure and petty, but you're wasting so much time being (and appearing,) negative and bitter.
Not an ideal image of a woman!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Putting Down a Man's Mother
No matter how annoying or trying a man's mother may be, putting down a man's MOTHER is a 'cardinal sin' in the minds of most men.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Looking Messy and Unkempt
When you do this, it not only shows that couldn't care less about the way you look, but you couldn't care less about a MAN. This may show by having stringy hair, spots on your clothes, visible hair on your legs, dirty nails/chipped nail polish, perspiration under your arms....
But unless you're depressed, there's NO excuse for any of these offenses. And men actually judge by appearances far more than women do.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Interrupting a Man While He's Speaking/Helping Him Finish a Sentence
This kind of assistance makes a man feel like he's in Kindergarten, and as if the woman's his TEACHER. It also hurts a man's masculine pride when you do such a thing, so don't do this, dove!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Habitually Finding Fault
Don't get into the habit of habitually finding fault - with the man who's trying his best, with the food, with the service in a restaurant, with the seating, with the ventilation in the theater. Or with anything else....
**There's seems to be something not quite right with the women who are always LOOKING for the fault (or faults,) as well!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Indiscriminately Applying Makeup
Don't apply foundation to your skin as if you did it with a trough. Don't apply lipstick so generously to your lips that it smears your teeth as well as your mouth. Don't be constantly re-applying your makeup in public....
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Marinating Yourself In Perfume
It may be a nice perfume but must you marinate in it? Some women wear so MUCH perfume that you almost have to cough because of it. Or you can practically taste it!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Making It Too Easy For a Man
Don't make it TOO easy for a man to win you; make him have to work for you. Be a challenge to a man The Seduction Secrets of a Coquette , otherwise a man has nothing to aim for, and you cause him to lose interest in you.
Moreover, throwing all your time and attention towards a brand new man and relationship can be a recipe for disaster.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Talking Too Much
Men HATE it when women talk too much. Believe me, they do. You might also not be aware of the correlation between prattering on endlessly, and scaring off prospective partners. But the fact of the matter is that there IS a correlation!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Treating Your Man Like a Golden Retriever
A man may like to get you a glass of water, and to pick up your belongings. Occasionally. He'll also do that to impress you.
However, a man doesn't like to be 'fetching' and carrying a woman's things, all of the time, or being asked to do it - like he's a faithful Golden Retriever!
Furthermore, a man hates to be left carrying a woman's handbag. This is so emasculating for him.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Being Careless With Your Speech Or Liquor
There isn't a high value man alive who likes his lady to reek of slang, profanity or alcohol. Therefore, before you start telling that off-color anecdote, you'll want to be mighty sure that the story's MORAL is something worth telling.
Which it probably isn't.
Moreover, you should know how to tell it in a lady-like manner.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Leaving a Trail Of Cosmetics, Underwear and Other Impediments In the Bathroom
If you want to maintain your feminine MYSTIQUE, doll (and you will if you want keep a man around The Art of Mystique - for Seductresses ,) keep your cosmetic secrets to yourself.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Whining About Things
WHINING is so anti-seductive. No matter who's doing it. So either take care of the matter or forget about it!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Using Ridicule to Be Funny Or As a Weapon
If this is done with affection (such as good-naturedly teasing a man,) this is one thing. However, if it's ever prompted by meanness, or by bitchiness, it simply can't ever be funny enough to offset its painful effects.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Using 'Baby Talk' With a Man In Front Of An Audience
This is embarrassing to the average male. He may like being cooed over in private (and often does,) but he hates to feel like a fool in front of his friends.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Not Being Appreciative
To be appreciated is one of a man's PRIMARY emotional needs. Therefore, lovely, be appreciative of your man, and sincerely responsive to him.
But never gushy.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Playing Dumb
High value men are exacting in their demands. Therfore, dumb, insipid women are rarely interesting to them. Moreover, too much or too little substance in a woman is equally offensive to men.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Boasting
BOASTING about the things you own, your fabulous career, your irresistible charm, your popularity with other men.... It's not only poor taste to begin with, but it's highly possible that your partner of the moment doesn't care for the competition (or the narcissism.)
And may return you swiftly to the Hungry Mob from which (according to you!) have just escaped.
**Equal quantities of pride and humility, are necessary ingredients in being an irresitible woman to men.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Complaining
Complaining is a very unattractive trait - in anyone. It's also so very tiring and off-putting for a man when he constantly has to listen to a woman talking about her problems, her annoyances, the constant obstacles in her life....
Furthermore, complaining about being TIRED, after having accepted a man's invitation is another 'no, no.'
What man wants to feel like you're doing him a massive favor by putting up with his company?
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Being Conspicuous
Making yourself CONSPICUOUS - either with loud speaking or with loud behavior - is another thing that's anti-seductive for a woman. A brass horn may have its place in the orchestra, but it's pretty off-putting coming from a woman (or as a constant companion, for that matter!)
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Not Listening
Not listening to a man, or not looking at him when he's talking to you, is rude. Learn to listen, dove, really listen. Moreover, don't fidget - with your fingers, your feet, your cell phone or your mind!
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Being Argumentative
Anybody can be stubborn, but it takes a BIG person to be able to see the other side. However, it takes an even bigger person, with a sense of humor, to be able to give in gracefully.
**A twinkle in the eye will also win more battles than a sharp tongue ;-)
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Being Bossy
Besides being highly annoying to a man, a woman's bossiness can be quite emasculating to him. In fact, it's an evil which scares off many potential suitors.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Being Demanding
Your true American man (as with any good man,) likes to do homage to the woman he loves. Provided she INSPIRES it, rather than insists on it.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Forcing Your Intellect On a Man
Yes, men like smart and intelligent women, but it's a mistake to force your intellect and learning on men. It not only makes them feel that you want to compete with them, but can make them feel threatened.
Furthermore, a man likes to discover a woman's brightness over time, and for himself.
Mistakes Women Make With Men - Lending Money to a Man
Never lend money to a man - never! If you do, you're actually working against him by causing him to 'lose face' (as a MAN.)
He'll also start to experience negative emotions (such as guilt over borrowing money from a woman.) And he starts to lose respect for himself.
**It's MAN'S role to provide, and every masculine, high value man realizes this fact.
By the way, I'm not implying that a woman shouldn't work. I'm implying that a woman shouldn't have to provide for a man.
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