Thursday, August 25, 2011

Mistakes Women Make With Men

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Probably the worst mistake that a woman can commit with men, dove, is to think that she can make NO mistake! 

Furthermore, the moment that idea enters a woman's head, she's already on the road to some grand blunder - where she'll end up offending, turning off, or even disgusting a man that she cares about.

Therefore, in order to prevent making mistakes with men, we must never allow ourselves to RELAX too much around them. 

Mindful manners, perpetual tact, and never-failing caution are necessary (and absolutely essential ingredients,) in the behavior a woman who wishes to catch and keep a man.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Keeping a Man Waiting

Perpetual tardiness isn't part of 'The Rules' (of dating,) or of playing hard to get with men. It's just a bad habit, and a RUDE one at that. It's also resented by any self-respecting, high value man.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Indulging In Catty Gossip

Whether it's about other women, work colleagues, your mother-in-law.... this sort of cattiness is so unattractive to men! It only shows a woman's insecurity and pettiness, and no woman ever achieved permanent success by stamping on the reputations of others.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Running Down Exes

Whether it's running down your ex, or your current man's ex
(or his new girlfriend,) DON'T do this. Not only does it make you look insecure and petty, but you're wasting so much time being (and appearing,) negative and bitter

Not an ideal image of a woman!

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Putting Down a Man's Mother

No matter how annoying or trying a man's mother may be, putting down a man's MOTHER is a 'cardinal sin' in the minds of most men.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Looking Messy and Unkempt

When you do this, it not only shows that couldn't care less about the way you look, but you couldn't care less about a MAN. This may show by having stringy hair, spots on your clothes, visible hair on your legs, dirty nails/chipped nail polish, perspiration under your arms....

But unless you're depressed, there's NO excuse for any of these offenses. And men actually judge by appearances far more than women do.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Interrupting a Man While He's Speaking/Helping Him Finish a Sentence

This kind of assistance makes a man feel like he's in Kindergarten, and as if the woman's his TEACHER. It also hurts a man's masculine pride when you do such a thing, so don't do this, dove!

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Habitually Finding Fault

Don't get into the habit of habitually finding fault - with the man who's trying his best, with the food, with the service in a restaurant, with the seating, with the ventilation in the theater. Or with anything else....

**There's seems to be something not quite right with the women who are always LOOKING for the fault (or faults,) as well!

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Indiscriminately Applying Makeup

Don't apply foundation to your skin as if you did it with a trough. Don't apply lipstick so generously to your lips that it smears your teeth as well as your mouth. Don't be constantly re-applying your makeup in public....

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Marinating Yourself In Perfume

It may be a nice perfume but must you marinate in it? Some women wear so MUCH perfume that you almost have to cough because of it. Or you can practically taste it!

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Making It Too Easy For a Man

Don't make it TOO easy for a man to win you; make him have to work for you. Be a challenge to a man
The Seduction Secrets of a Coquette , otherwise a man has nothing to aim for, and you cause him to lose interest in you. 

Moreover, throwing all your time and attention towards a brand new man and relationship can be a recipe for disaster.

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Talking Too Much

Men HATE it when women talk too much. Believe me, they do. You might also not be aware of the correlation between prattering on endlessly, and scaring off prospective partners. But the fact of the matter is that there IS a correlation!

Mistakes Women Make With Men - Treating Your Man Like a Golden Retriever

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  1. It is a real shame that I did not have your wise words of wisdom back in February of this year about Lending Money to a Man. This is a serious mistake that I have made with my boyfriend.

    Just last week he said to me that he does not owe me any money. That we are in a relationship. I told him that I found it very strange that he wants to use our relationship as a crotch not to pay me back when he is planning on dumping me for another woman.

    I made it clear that the money had it purpose and we agreed that he would pay me back every single cent. What a pity I did not have a crystal ball back then to tell me what would happen 6 months later.

    But at least I know now. I sure won't make this same mistake again with him or any other man for that matter.

    Thank you so much Melina. And to the other people reading this, please follow her advice. It is really that important.

  2. Thanks for dropping by snowflowersjw! That boyfriend doesn't sound like a 'King-material,' at all! But at least you won't be making that mistake again! All the best, lovely. *Hugs.*

    @ anon; thanks, doll! xx

  3. Isn't most of this stuff just plain old good manners?

  4. Love your post. thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  5. Thank you a lot Melina:)

  6. Thank you so much for your sound wisdom.


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