Monday, July 11, 2011

The Feminine Trait of Gentleness


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 I'm sure you'll agree with me lovely (if you've been following my blogs for some time, that is,) that TRUE femininity isn't equivalent to weakness. It's about being STRONG.

As you're probably already aware, the quality of gentleness has always been considered as a very feminine trait. 

However, only a feminine woman can be gentle! Moreover, true femininity is about being GENTLE; gentleness of bearing, manner and character.

Nevertheless, gentle feminine traits (such as softness, tenderness and graciousness,) weren't meant to entail the ABSENCE of strength. The gentleness of bearing, manner and character is meant to be an inflection of strength.

The truth is that we can be strong, independent and self-sufficient women, while being ‘magnolia blossom butterflies’ (the women that all the alpha men become hard-core seduced by, and want to marry.)

Furthermore, dear heart, nothing could be further from the truth than to suppose that gentleness and femininity is an absence of strength. You only have to study the Great Ladies of history to know that, and no Great Lady was ever rough!

Just like the gentle and feminine women of today, she hid an iron first in a VELVET glove (and ruled men behind the scenes *wink.*)

Even in modern social settings, gatherings of fine ladies will (for the most part,) exhibit an atmosphere of gentleness and genteelness. Moreover, like many feminine traits, the attribute of gentleness is a sign of good breeding.

The opposite of gentleness is ROUGHNESS, as well as harshness and coarseness. And I’m sure that you’ll agree with me when I say the crying fault of many women today is their LACK of gentleness!

Besides being rough, coarse and harsh - in their words and behavior - such women are;

Rude.

Domineering.

Aggressive.

Offensive (from their constant cussing, to their ‘in your face’ sexuality, to their avoidance of tact and consideration to the feelings of others….)

Roughness in a woman is a sad disfigurement indeed, and the marring of all her loveliness. 

Unlike gentle and feminine women, rough women can't be considered as REAL women. Furthermore, while gentle and feminine women are seductive and alluring to quality males, rough and masculine women are anti-seductive and repulsive.

Especially the dire-hard, card-carrying feminists (I'm not talking about the feminine feminists!)

In addition, a REAL woman is;

Softly-spoken.

Patient.

A lady.

Mild and mellow. She's not easily provoked and isn't looking for a fight (her manners aren't those of a fighting ring!)

Pleasant and considerate. She loves men, and is nothing like the uncouth, loud-mouthed 'feminazi' (who mistakes noise for strength, and dominance for power.) 

Kind, caring and considerate (she's not a selfish, swaggering 'she-male.')

Meditative and peaceful. She's living in the 'now' - here and now.

Remember dove, weakness is always ROUGH. And no woman can be truly feminine, if she isn't gentle.

When you become ‘yin,’ and lose that 'yang' vibe of the male hunter and aggressor, that's when you'll finally catch a REAL man.

Ever noticed how those tough ‘ballsy' girls, who like to cuss and start arguments, FAIL to do that?

In addition, the feminine trait of gentleness;

Soothes and comforts a man (rather than crushes and castrates him.)

Draws a man in (rather than drives him away.)

Woos (rather than compels.)

The quiet potency of gentleness subdues whatever would be repellant in a woman's nature, and imbues it with SWEETNESS. It also imbues her face with that adorable, wide-eyed and youthful look.

Furthermore, lovely, whenever you think of gentleness, think of the fable where the sun and the wind entered a contest to show which could remove the traveler's cloak the quickest. The mild sunshine (like a gentle and feminine woman,) comes off as the REAL victor *smile.*

Furthermore, just like the sun, the feminine trait of gentleness has great POWER, but it's used in a quiet and unobtrusive way.

Of course, the trait of dominance and aggression (combined,) is a powerful thing too. However, it's not fitting for a woman (most men intensely DISLIKE aggression in women,) and it's hard to manage.

Moreover, if you're not careful, your dominant, aggressive and 'yang' personality will get the better of you.

Being an aggressive woman can only lead to trouble - especially in a relationship with a man!

When thinking about gentleness, you can also think for a moment about a column of finely polished marble. You know how SMOOTH it is. You also know (or sense) how pleasant it is to draw your hand slowly over its glossy surface.

Well, what the smoothness and glossiness of marble is - to the sight and the touch - gentleness (as well as femininity,) is to our words and actions! 

The feminine trait of gentleness takes the roughness from our words and behavior, and replaces them with smoothness. Which is very pleasant.

Furthermore, what soft velvety moss is to a rock, a gentle feminine spirit is to our conduct. It covers up the sharp corners, and smooths down the rough places!

Alluring in all its tendencies, the feminine trait of gentleness inspires confidence where there might otherwise be distrust. It definitely puts people at EASE, dove.

Therefore, there's a real benefit in gentleness, and it brings real, substantial perks to the women who practice it.

However, genuine gentleness lasts twenty-four hours in the day, and seven days of the week. Moreover, no matter how beautiful or intelligent a woman may be, or how influential her position is, she must be gentle!

However, gentleness isn't just a quiet feminine influence. It's a suavity, diplomacy and benevolence of manner that pervades the character of REAL women. 

You must be the embodiment of gentleness. No woman can be truly beautiful without it.

CULTIVATE it in your behavior. You'll not only become softer, calmer, and more feminine, but a new woman. 

Such women are able to meet a scowl with a smile, a storm with calm, and rudeness, or envy, with an unruffled tranquility.

From today on, why not try and become more a more gentle, feminine and ‘yin’ woman? In your bearing, your manner, your words….  

Gentleness wins EVERY time, and when everything else fails.


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14 comments:

  1. Thanks for keeping in mind the differences between the radical feminists and "feminine" feminists like myself ;) Great article.

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  3. Amazing! So thoughtful and real, i think this will be one of my favourites:) I can feel that it is possible to acquire that gentleness, but i will have to work for it. And i realise that it isn't actually always the big things that have to change, but it shows in all the minor situations too... I will be more attentive to that.

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  5. This blog really hit home for me. Most my life I was more the ugly duckling my friends where blessed with great effortless looks. I worked hard to tame unruly hair and blemished skin. Yet my gentle femine spirit made me the target of there anger. Boys/men would spend a great deal of time talking and laughing with me. I would be the remembered one. Once out of emotional pain I said to young man, why are you here with me when it clearly was my friends beauty that called you over. He confided in me with your right. Yet they are rude and only wish to be the center of attention. With you I feel heard and cared about, your beauty is not as loud but shines with a more lady like light. Thanks for this Blog.

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  6. Hello, you with the beautiful gentle spirit!

    You really must be beautiful, TRULY beautiful, and what that young man said just confirmed it!

    xxx

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  7. I'm nearly in tears.



    This is beautiful to me.

    Thank you so much, Melina. Reading this made my day.

    I'll do what I can to spread your work.

    The world can use much more of this wisdom.

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  8. Hello spiritsentient!

    I'm glad you found this article touching and helpful. :-)

    Thank you so much for your nice comment and support!

    x0x

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  9. what a wonderful definition of a gentle, strong woman.. i came across your post because i was thinking of describing a woman as gentle.. then thought of the word gentleman and would gentle fit..? so i googled gentle, feminine and found this.. your description i think is a perfect, wonderful detail of a gentle woman..

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  10. Hello there anon.

    I'm glad you found my article and definition of gentle women helpful.

    Have a great day/night! x0x

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  11. My only questions is how to be gentle? I have always been a tomboy.
    Rita

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    1. Rita,

      I recently watched a 1952 movie called Room For One More with Cary Grant. The lady in the movie was gentle with her family and it really caught my eye. I wanted to be MORE like her. Good wholesome movie.

      Fruit of the spirit: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, good, gentle, faith, meekness(kindness) and self-control. *smiles*

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  12. This should be for girls compulsory basic learning in all schools in the world.

    Ron

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  13. @ Ron; Thank you for your sweet comment. it made my day. :-)

    @ Rita; your question has given me subject matter for a future post.

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