Monday, June 20, 2011

Women of Excellence, Femininity and Charm

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"Once or twice in a life-time we are permitted to enjoy the charm of noble manners in the presence of a man or woman who have no bar in their nature, but whose character emanates freely in their word and gesture.

A beautiful form is better than a beautiful face; a beautiful behavior is better than a beautiful form; it gives a higher pleasure than statues or pictures. It is the finest of the fine arts."

There's a wonderful attribute of personality which belongs to the most feminine, ideal and SEDUCTIVE women - just as color and fragrance belongs to the flower, and, light and color belongs to the jewel. This may be referred to as "feminine charm."


Feminine charm is an ART, dove, but it also suggests magic. It could even be seen as a type of mental sorcery and warfare (Madame Recamier was a woman who was particularly good at this type of sorcery and warfare :-))

The word "charm" in its most basic sense, may be taken to cover the art of general social adjustment, ranging from the the simplest of common courtesies to the highest beauty of ceremony.

The Japanese geisha have mastered the delightful art of charm Charm Warfare – The Art of Charm for Seductresses , and have been mastering it for centuries. And the ever-increasing complexity and demands of modern society puts an ever-increasing PREMIUM on a woman's social behavior.

**Nevertheless, you only have to look at the younger women of today to start wondering if the breed of charming, feminine and well-mannered girls will soon be EXTINCT. I've personally noticed too, that many teenage girls are dressing more like under-age hookers than delightfully feminine enchantresses.

In addition, just by listening to them, you'd think that some of them came from pigsties, and that their habits must be as vulgar as their conversation!

Even grown women today can be as rude, crude, slovenly and ANTI-SEDUCTIVE. However, there's another trait that makes a woman anti-seductive, but often without her realizing it.... snobbishness (a hallmark of the unsure.)

Only true breeding and personal cultivation consists in avoiding all forms of anti-seductive behavior, and attending to the ABC's of personal excellence, femininity and charm with care. And with a regard for the sensibilities of others, and a concern for the DIGNITY of one's self!

Furthermore lovely, QUALITY men judge women by similar standards, or the lack thereof. For example, a man will judge a woman by;

The way she dresses (and how much skin she chooses to bare in public.)

The way she speaks, and whether she refrains from cussing/swearing and vulgarity.

How feminine she is in her behavior.

How poised, graceful and lady-like she is.

How warm, charming, gracious and hospitable she is.

How much substance and propriety she portrays.

How much value she appears to offer.

The standards she appears to have.





Surely each of us has something to recommend to each other, and to quality men, besides the clothes we wear, the furniture we own or the cars we drive? And looking around us lovely, I'm sure you'll agree with me that it's necessary to emphasize (again and again,) the ABC's of personal excellence, femininity and charm!

In ancient Greece, if a hetaera (a Grecian courtesan,) was feminine and beautiful she was deified, if charming she was adored. They were indeed women of excellence as far as cultivating one's intellect and feminine charms were concerned.

Furthermore, the hetaera learned that the rightful path in life consisted in passing from beautiful manners to beautiful thoughts, from beautiful thoughts to beautiful aspirations, from beautiful aspirations to beautiful meditations - which was considered "beauty supreme."
 

It was Aspasia (a Milesian woman and hetaera who became famous for her involvement with the Athenian statesman Pericle,) who's beauty first attracted Pericles. But she was more than just a beauty, she was a woman of excellence, charm and spirituelle!

Aspasia was said to have advised Pericles concerning the conduct of the state, and even to have written some of his best speeches.

**Remember, beauty does attract a man, cupcake, but only charm and graciousness and EXCELLENCE can detain.


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6 comments:

  1. Hello Melina,

    I am a 50 year old woman who would like to feel more graceful and feminine. I feel like I lost something along the way, and I'd like to get it back.

    Now here is the reason I am having a problem deciding what course to take. I am ONLY interesting in feeling better for myself. I am not trying to "catch" a man. I don't want my femininity/sensuality tied up with having a man around. I CAN'T AFFORD THAT since I have never been the type of woman whom men find appealing.

    So which course would be best for me?

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  2. Hi Sherry!

    I'd go with the beautification course to feel/become more feminine and appealing, or the charm course to feel better about yourself!

    Good luck.

    Melina xxx

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  3. " These are also the women who've been trained by their mothers and grandmothers, aunties and/or feminine role-models to be feminine, graceful and elegant - in everything they do! ...

    How True yet often overlooked!

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  4. I agree! It's especially over-looked when we are young.
    ;-)

    Thanks for dropping by.

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  5. I love all the articles u've been sending to my email foladesunbo@yahoo.com. This teaching is too loaded to be free. Thanks Melina. u're really helping me out with personality. my fiance have been complaining about my swag, but av been going through ur blog recently and i must say he's highly impressed about my positive changes. pls how do i download the free PDF book/ thanks. Folake(Nigeria)

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  6. Hi Melina, I certainly agree with you on careful maintence of one's appearence! which is why I have a slight problem..... in an attempt to fix my eyebrows i kinda overtweezed.. on top too! "sigh" anyways you seem to very knowledgeable in this area (not to mention other ones as well:)) do you have any suggestions? thanx, god bless!

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