Sunday, June 5, 2011

The Art of Being a Woman; Feminine Grace

©2008-2013 The Seductive Woman

FEW women are endowed with an abundance of Feminine Grace.

The words "grace," "graceful," and "gracious" all stem from the same root. The grace and love of God - without regard to our worthiness.

Being endowed with such grace means being beautiful and serene in every aspect dove.

In;
 
Your thoughts.
 
Your living.
 
Your carriage.
 
Your movements.
 
Your interactions with other people.
 
The way you treat yourself. Many of us have seen a woman who we thought was just ordinary looking, who was even a little bit overweight, but who bagged an Adonis for a husband. This is the woman who often has a Feminine Grace, as well as graciousness, that other women FAIL to acquire.

An inner charm always shows through such women, and a man always notices Feminine Grace, and other such outstanding feminine traits. A truly graceful woman is a woman with a peculiar BALM in her spirit.

She's a serene woman (who's quietly confident of her femininity and beauty,) and draws others in with her calm aura of mystique.

**However, due to the harsher realities of life, there may be a touch of gentle irony in many graceful women - along with the graciousness and sweetness.

Feminine Grace is cultivated and perfected through a special kind of living. The division is also quite obvious between the graceful/gracious woman and ungraceful/ungracious woman.

 
Nevertheless, the lifestyle of Feminine Grace is easier live than the MODERN version of ''womanhood,'' which often demands of the modern woman more than she should have to bear.

In fact lovely, I adamantly believe a woman's load should be LIGHT. And when you're living life as a truly feminine, graceful and gracious woman, underneath it all, you realize that you're missing nothing essential from life. 


Gracefulness, as well as graciousness, isn't something that's on the surface either, it comes from within (and in my opinion, where God's grace and peace has found a nesting place.) In addition, graceful living, as well as giving, grows out of our LOVE and gratitude.

Furthermore, a woman who's classed as feminine and graceful isn't loud, overbearing or highly-strung, ever. And withdraws into her own serenity and pleasure with the garden and her thoughts.

An IRRESISTIBLE woman is not only graceful, but confident and comfortable with what she has - and in her own skin. She may have her little faults and foibles, but she realizes that no one's perfect.
 
And takes consolation in her more outstanding qualities, while minimizing the flaws and making men feel comfortable and blessed to be around her :-)

The most irresistible women are content with their feminine and graceful appeal, and are CREATIVE in cultivating it. Moreover, they're serene and enjoy each moment of their lives.

 
Such women can also just read or do some tinkering or crafts, and are never bored or frowning in dissatisfaction.
 
Which can make a woman look ugly. Their happiness with their lot in life makes graceful women glow from WITHIN. And men see through the outward physical appearance and admire them for their inner radiance and charm.

When you take time to analyze the most ideal women and traits, you'll find that the women who are confident, serene, happy and independent are the types of women that all the quality men want.

 
When you make a man feel that he makes you happy just by BEING with him, yet you retain your serenity and independence, he'll be able to share more of himself.

To the MALE spirit, Feminine Grace is not only like having a soothing balm of honey applied to all the nooks and crannies, but like being presented with a banquet of sweetness *smile.*

As we're collectively in turmoil with our disappointments and discontents, the feminine soul that's found PEACE is submissive and accepting. And has something so different from others that it works like catnip.

When this superior brand of grace and graciousness finds a response in YOUR heart lovely, you virtually become a 'dove' woman.

Furthermore, your relationships with your man, as well as with your friends and neighbors become harmonious and gracious - in the truest sense.

Kindness, consideration and a loving attitude towards her man, family and peers is what makes a graceful 'dove' woman truly remarkable. These attributes also come from a joy within - as one can't hope to be graceful or gracious without a complete ACCEPTANCE of oneself.

 
Feminine grace and graciousness also comes from understanding and accepting personal limitations. And in the happiness and satisfaction of being gifted and exemplary.

**This accounts for the peace and serenity in the typical face and expression of dove women (and keeping a hold on the symbol of the dove, a woman can go through her life with an inner peace and serenity :-))

It's sometimes disheartening to learn how our modern women treat themselves, as well as their femininity. In keeping up with the modern world, many women have abandoned dressing up for occasions - and wearing pretty and feminine dresses.

 
Sadly too, although being serene, gracious and feminine makes the modern teenage girl distinct, it makes her a STRANGER among her peers.

Nevertheless, femininity and Feminine Grace and graciousness isn't really about wardrobe or floral dresses dove. But it definitely isn't about punky dressing, or the hip-hop or hard-rock music style of dressing!

Like femininity, it's is actually an ART form, and the feminine artist achieves that by living a life of serenity, graciousness and elegance. It's also about demonstrating polite and courteous behavior, and using charm and calm logic to go through the travails of daily life.

Feminine Grace and graciousness is exuding love and a bright light to serve as BEACONS to those who want to be near feminine beauty and serenity.
 

It's feeling good about being a WOMAN, with your inherent limitation and power. 
In addition cupcake, the seduction of men is achieved through a gentle manipulation of the mind. And by exhibiting very attractive and ideal qualities that men just can't help falling for!

SEDUCTIVE Feminine Grace is about self-confidence and a high degree of self esteem, knowing you’re a beautiful and loving woman, and that a man just can’t help getting drawn in by your magnetic personality.

Your looks don't really come into this.

The truly feminine and graceful woman knows that she''s a COMPLETE person, no matter what she looks like. She also doesn't need a man to make her secure, safe and complete but is happy to acknowledge that a member of the opposite sex is meant by nature to complement her.

 
She's not averse to the idea of a male protector either, and in fact welcomes it, and even seeks a superior specimen *wink.*

However, a woman endowed with feminine grace and seductiveness is empowered by her womanliness, and doesn't use feminine weakness as an excuse.

 
YES, she knows she can get many advantages by being sweet and adorable, but she's strong, likes what she is, and is comfortable in her role! 


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7 comments:

  1. A very powerful article. You described all this so beautifully i don't know who would not want to have a taste of all this! I love my new life:) *hug* to you Melina

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  2. It's difficult to develop feminine grace. I'm a little bit confused. Can someone care to explain this to me?

    I've gone two dates with a 26 year old male and I'm a 23 year female. LOL I don't know if the signs have to do with anything but we're both Aries. Before our first date, he would text me for all the time.

    I was charming, laughing, childlike, and feel feminine inside and out. :P I didn't wear the dress I wore jeans with a feminine top instead ha ha. High heels all the way. SO yes, I was being a girl.

    The first date went very well. The second date went very well as well because we both shared a kiss and cuddle after I gave him a message from hiking and carrying stuff for me. It felt like we had common values and belief systems. He said I "had a heart of gold" and appreciate the things that I have. But for some reason after the second date he has been quiet. He apologized for being quiet. He hasn't replied to my text when I said Hi about 4 days and counting.

    I don't think I did anything wrong. It could be he is not interested or have other options. I was wondering if I am to handle this with "grace, confident, strong" woman, do I reply when he sends me a text or do I not reply the number of days he hasn't reply to my text? How do I pull back? When do I stop pulling back?

    If he invites me out for a date, can I accept it sometimes and sometimes I don't? I do have other hobbies that I enjoy.

    Should I put on a straight face of a "happy, confident, calm" woman? I made a mistake of revealing what I believe, my views on relationship, and I don't remember what else I did say.

    I'm so confused what to do. I swear he is pulling a "Siren"/"Mystique" move while I'm pulling a Charmer.

    Sorry for such a long post. It's the only way I can tell the summary of my dilemma. :/

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  3. Hi lovely! I can't say what's actually going through his head right now, of course, but it sounds like he either has other options or is playing the coquette. Personally, I'd find at least two other quality men to date. Ideally, and at all times, you should be dating 3 guys! Why? To remain detached from the situation and to keep a clear head. It also rouses a man's competitive streak and puts YOU in the center ;-)

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  4. @Live_N_Learn

    He knows you are interested, so he is probably feeling "safe" with you. The best thing you can do is become detached from the situation like Melina said (hard, I know) and give him opportunity to come to you.

    If he comes back, make him start from square 1 again. No kisses, no massages, nada.

    In the meantime, enjoy your other hobbies!

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  5. Te he. Good advice OneGirlsDream! Live_N_Learn, sometimes it's necessary to give a man some 'space to fall,'as well as cultivate some coquettishness and mystique in your persona. Being a charmer is great of course, but can lack the necessary elements :-)

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  6. Thank you all for the responses! They were very helpful.

    Ha ha, yea I should be dating 3 guys. It's so tough to balance 3 guys when I can't even balance one.

    It's over with the last guy that I dated. He hasn't contact me so I'm letting it go. LOL I deleted his number off my cell.

    You guys are the best! I don't know what I do without you all.

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