Monday, May 30, 2011

The Art of Femininity and The Truth About Being Feminine

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 Before we even get into the art of femininity,and the truth about femininity, some women have UNREALISTIC ideas about femininity and womanliness.

 They're convinced that they can't ever be queens among women because they believe; 

 They're too tall.

They're not beautiful enough.

They're big boned.

They're a little bit clutzy.

They don't look like Hollywood celebrities....

As a result, they feel DOOMED as far as femininity and womanliness is concerned. However lovely, regarding the art of femininity, there's no line that all women must be above, or below, physically, to be considered as REAL women.
For example, a woman may be naturally large-boned and have a deep/husky voice. But be as girly as they come! And even though she may not considered 'average' with these physical traits, both are normal.

 Moreover, she's showing individual differences, not defects.

 However, consider the FALSE pictures of femininity in the media and in the entertainment industry that we've all become familiar with. We see these and similar ideas of 'womanly perfection' being repeated time and time again.

 From such sources we may also come to feel that femininity means being perfect, or is simply a matter of being beautiful and sexy to look at.

 The truth of the matter is that magazines, movies and television shows give us a DISTORTED and rather vapid picture of femininity, and the real and important things are left out.

 Moreover, they emphasize the glamor, frivolity and surface appearances, not the REAL, day-to-day qualities which make a woman successful and ideal.

 They fail to mention, for instance, how important it is for femininity that a woman feel happy within herself - as a PERSON - and to respect herself as a member of her own sex (and to command respect by being respectable.)

 They don't mention either the importance of being a mature and sensible individual, of cultivating one's intellect, of being able to handle the day-to-day responsibilities in life and to love others in a grown-up and altruistic way.

 That's the trouble with many notions we have of femininity and womanliness today dove. It also doesn't help that many popular women's magazines and reality shows (such as 'Cosmopolitan,' 'The Hills' and 'Jersey Shore,') actually encourage women to be vapid, shallow and PROMISCUOUS.




I also want to add that the art of femininity doesn't entail becoming a model or winning a beauty contest. No, no! It entails becoming a woman of SUBSTANCE, a feminine woman, and a woman who can contribute something real and of value to society.

 Now, there's nothing wrong about a woman being beautiful, or having an interest in beauty, fashion and 'girly' things. On the contrary, these things, as well as the feminine arts, help a woman to REVEL in her femininity and are an asset.

 However, the true measure of femininity isn't in the size of a girl's bust or in the length of her legs or eyelashes. The true measure of femininity is in a woman's attitude, mannerisms and behavior.

 In addition, you can't judge femininity on the basis that a woman's a 'Martha Stewart' devotee or a prize-winning cook. The fact of the matter is dove; we can't all be beauty queens or prize-winning cooks.

 Every woman is DIFFERENT, and may be a little unusual and quirky besides :-)

 For example, a woman may be the most stunning and feminine looking women in a room (you see that she dresses femininely, paints her nails, has long hair and so on.) However, she's not thinking of modeling, marriage and/or motherhood as a full-time career.

 Moreover, she may plan to marry and become a mother eventually, but wants very much to become a doctor first (whether or not that will effect her chances of marrying and starting a family before her biological clock ticks over is besides the point.)

 The point is; when it comes to femininity and womanliness every woman is different - in abilities, personalities and interests. And every woman has been given a CHOICE in life - about what she wants to do and who she wants to be.

 We're not here to judge, and by thinking about these ideas and by observing others, we can discover what being a woman means to us, personally.

 What does being a woman mean to you dove? Moreover, who and what do you want to be in your life?

 Some of us will want to be a stay at home wives and mothers (more power to you, if that applies to you!) However, some of us wouldn't feel fulfilled without doing some sort of work that's outside the home, and we shouldn't feel guilty about it.

 And whatever your answers will be regarding your choices in life, it will be a different answer from the woman next to you (but it will fit YOU and that's what matters!)

 Furthermore, some of our ideas about what makes a woman FEMININE can be false, or at least too simple.

 Maybe we'll have to revise some of our thinking, and find new answers to the questions of what qualities a woman needs to have to be 'feminine.' We may also need to redefine what it means to be ideal and successful as a woman.

 Nevertheless, there certainly are fundamental DIFFERENCES between males and females, we can't deny that. Not only biologically, but in attitude, mannerisms and behavior. And the natural differences in personality may be due to the differences in glands and brain structure.

 In addition, it's BIOLOGY that has created the underlying difference between males and females. Naturally, the maleness or femaleness in humans will show itself in many physical traits.

 To mention a few;


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3 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for this article. Awhile back I was feeling a bit overwhelmed by all of the femininity information. I kept thinking if I can be a bit more coy, play my intellect down and practice my charm then just maybe I will attract the man of my dreams, Well, it didn't happen and I only became more stressed trying to become more of something!?. I have learned a great deal about the male psyche mostly from just asking my male friends. It was the knowledge you so generously shared that helped me to formulate which questions to even ask. What I have learned is that the development of femininity for me occurs through growth and self development. As I stay true to who I am, what I need and how I relate to the world, I attract others who mirror that best self. Many women find men who may cater or adore them but, it costs their life. They must now spend their energy stroking the male ego in order to keep the gifts and attention flowing. I believe the key to becoming our most beautiful feminine self begins with knowing who God created us to be. Without a firm foundation in who we are truly meant to be, even a life of successful seduction will seem empty. My hope is that all of your readers find a blessed mutually benefiting relationship. Thank you for pursuing your passion. God Bless!!!

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  2. As an avid reader thanks for adding to my to read list. How cool is this? to find a book I have and have read on the list. The Diva Principle!

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  3. Hi JeeSun!

    'The Diva Principle' and ANYTHING by Michelle McKinney Hammond is excellent reading. I'm a big fan of her work.

    Have a great day!

    xox

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